Friday, 17 June 2016

Deed Poll

Changing my name was the best thing I have ever done for myself. The freedom and the weight off your shoulders is overwhelming.
It's safe to say that getting a deed poll was not a difficult decision for me.
Keeping old name:
  • Completely avoiding using ID
  • Constant worry that people will know/find out
  • Old name on registers
  • If somebody argues that it's not your name, you have no backup
Changing name:
  • Able to use ID
  • Not worrying so much that people know
  • New name of registers
  • If somebody argues that it's not your name... well, it is.
  • If you are required to have been living 'in role' for a year, it's solid proof that you have done so
  • Confidence boost
I definitely recommend changing your name as soon as possible if you're trans. It makes you feel so much more comfortable and even if you're not 100% sure then it may be worth doing to confirm who you feel that you really are.

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